Stepping out of the comfort zone

Greetings y'all ;

Another day another blog not sure where to start or where it's headed so hold on and enjoy the journey.

Lets begin with yesterday since today has just begun. Aww sweet memories of yesterday. We had an extremely laid back day . We ran some errands, hunted down another watermelon and swam for a few hours. He had a wonderfully focused karate training. Then we or rather he, watched the football game ( seems I am bad luck when I watch so I got to catch up with a new friend - I think I am pretty lucky with that one ). Finally we snuggled up in his room again, read and listened to the melodic sound of rain dancing on the window.

Watching and listening to storms is cause for wonderment. Seriously how can something , which has the potential for being dangerous, still be so beautiful ? Lightening sprinting across the sky to thunderous applause. Rain dancing rhythmically upon the window , tapping out the notes to nature's song, Rinsing yesterday away but offering us a new chance and a new day.

The rain may rinse the day but the memories stay. If yesterday were a day of struggles then I would say it washed the day away to help give a fresh start but alas yesterday was a wonderful day so it merely rinsed the day and gave it a better shine.

Let's start with the Xan man - he did most excellent in the pool. He was able to give me time to read before swimming. He also played quite well even when losing. Big steps big boy ! During our errands he did not ask for anything and was the worlds best helper! When I made my rare phone call he allowed me to talk without trying to be the center of attention. Big steps big boy. Again I think it comes down to understanding and responding to who he is. Positive reinforcement and coming along side him create an inspiring and productive relationship and child, punishment - not so much.

I actually stepped out of my comfort zone twice yesterday . The first time was at his karate training. I talked openly with other parents and if felt really good. I see that other parents don't view me as an abject failure based on my child's occasional tantrums. The second time was when I called a friend just because I needed to hear their voice. I loathe no make that LOATHE talking on the phone but we chatted for over an hour and I left feeling pretty good about myself. Sometimes it's nice to hear nice things,

Today it's still raining so I dare say my son and the sun are both shining but under a blanket. Folks no one knows what the day will bring so remain open and honest and ready. Keep your eyes open for those little lights that are really angels leading and guiding us.

Thanks for reading again today.